Korean
Wedding Culture and Traditions
In Korea, the marriage between a man and woman represents the joining
of two families, rather than the joining of two individuals. As
such, the event was often called Taerye (Great Ritual), and people
from all over participated. Steeped in traditional Confucian values,
the ceremonies and events surrounding the actual marriage were long
and elaborate, from the pairing of the couple to the rituals performed
after the ceremony.
Professional matchmakers paired up likely candidates for marriage,
with the new couple often meeting for the first time at their wedding!
The families considered many factors in the decision, consuting
with fortune tellers for predictions about the couple's future life
together. During the Chosun period, people married
in their early teens, with the girl often being several years older
than the boy.
Family Wedding Traditions
Before a Korean bride may be married, she must take
part in the traditional Introduction ceremony, where she is accepted
into the groom's family.
After the Korean newlyweds have exchanged their wedding
vows, the groom, formally, introduces his new wife to his parents.
The groom's father may throw red dates at his daughter-in-law to
bring her luck in fertility.
Important Korean Symbols A couple getting married
in Korea might incorporate ducks or geese into their wedding ceremony.
Both ducks and geese mate for life and represent faithfulness.
At one time, a man who wanted to get married in Korea,
would travel to his future bride's home on a white pony and present
her family with a pair of geese.
The groom usually traveled to the house of the bride
for the ceremony, then stayed there for 3 days before taking his
new bride to his family's home. The actual ceremony involved many
small rituals, with many bows and symbolic gestures. The participants
were expected to control their emotions and remain somber.
Although Koreans have kept several aspects of
the traditional ceremony, most modern ceremonies resemble Western
marriage ceremonies more than traditional Korean ones. However,
many folk villages and museums across the country regularly perform
ceremonies to keep the traditions alive.
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